The first seven verses of the first chapter of the book of Proverbs provide a brief introduction and the overall purpose of the book. From the very introduction, we see that discretion is presented as a virtue closely tied to wisdom. It could be said, then, that a wise person also practices discretion. Let us look at what the Word of God says:

“To give prudence to the simple,
to the young man knowledge and discretion.”
– Proverbs 1:4 (ESV)

We can start by defining discretion. According to the Oxford English Dictionary, discretion is: 1. The quality of behaving or speaking in such a way as to avoid causing offense or revealing confidential information. 2. The freedom to decide what should be done in a particular situation.

The term discretion is often associated with speech, but the Oxford definition also highlights that it encompasses behaving with care and making judicious decisions. This aligns with the Bible’s teaching that discretion is a virtue.

“I, wisdom, dwell with prudence,
and I find knowledge and discretion.”
– Proverbs 8:12 (ESV)

Throughout the book of Proverbs, discretion is shown to guide people in navigating life. Here are some examples:

• It protects and watches over individuals (Prov. 2:11).
• It delivers from those with harmful or bad intentions (Prov. 2:16).
• It helps people refrain from reacting to an offense (Prov. 19:11).

The absence of discretion is viewed unfavorably in Scripture. Proverbs offers a striking image of this:

“Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout
is a beautiful woman without discretion.”
– Proverbs 11:22 (ESV)

The book of Proverbs encourages us to pursue and retain the virtue of discretion:

“My son, do not lose sight of these—
keep sound wisdom and discretion.”
– Proverbs 3:21 (ESV)